Who Are You? 

Sunday, coffee drinking in front of the tv all morning day. Hanging out with the puppers & watching them play day. Crafting and junking day. NO REAL PANTS DAY! 


Hello friends, family, & newbies! Welcome to my blog! If you like it, you can subscribe. If you don’t, just leave! I don’t want any negativity coming from my blog. This is meant to be place where people can come to read & relate & feel safe, not judged! So let’s get into today’s topic!


I recently had a family friend, basically a second mom write a blog about who you are as a person. & it really got me thinking…. So many people fight with the fact that they have no clue who they are as a person. Most of the time, they don’t even realize that’s the missing puzzle piece in their mind. They go out & party with different groups, they try different styles, date different types of people. All while none of it really works.. why? If you haven’t found yourself yet, how are you supposed to connect the rest of the of the dots? You more then likely can’t!

I went years with this struggle. I’m still trying to find myself as a person. But I am happy with where I am at with myself right now. I love myself as my own person. I have made it to the point where I don’t need anyone’s acceptance. I do not question why people do things any longer, they do it because they wanted too. I do everything in life to better myself, family, & good friends. Friends who have more then proved themselves in my life… 

But that doesn’t mean I don’t give too many chances. My heart is bigger than my brain & I usually think with it first. Too forgiving, people tell me. I’m a woman. We are beings ran by feeling, and then logic. We were put on this earth to love & nourish. 
I’m a forgiver, hard worker, loner, junker, thrifter, Gypsy, daughter & granddaughter, lover, protector, friend, dog mom, & a vintage soul. 

I am a millennial. Born the WRONG time. I don’t like new things. I love all things old & used. Vintage & worn. I love “Junk”. Antique & thrift stores are my candy shop. I am always looking in corners no one else would. I take more time to find something I love then the next person would. Why would I buy something brand new, when I could buy something that has already brought someone else so much happiness? I see it like you’re continuing the pieces legacy. One day to be passed on to someone else after you. Most people don’t understand why a junker thinks the way they do… but I think it’s simply because we see things in ways that our age group just can’t. We see past the price tag or the current styles. We see it’s true beauty. 

But more than anything, I am myself. 

Undoubtedly, unquestionably myself. 

So now…. I ask you, who are you? What makes you tick? What makes you happy & smile? What makes you sad? What makes you, you? 
I will leave you with that on this fine (warm) Sunday evening. 

I hope everyone has a wonderful day. I will check back in this week at some point. 
Xoxo, Kayla♥️ 

One thought on “Who Are You? 

  1. Good morning Kayla,

    This is a good one, most interesting. I say, the older I get, the more I know what’s important to me. That has a lot to do with not having as much time left to live in this world and with this life. It also has to do with grandpa’s and my study of the Enneagram system (ancient Sufi origins). It’s a 9-point star, each point a personality type. I am type 2, the Giver/Helper . Grandpa is type 9, the Mediator/Peacemaker. The system helps explain how the different types respond to stress and non-stress. I have a short book I’ll loan you next time I see you. It’s really fascinating. The 9 types are broken down into 3 sets of 3. Types 2, 3, and 4 are in the heart center. 5, 6, and 7 are in the fear center. Types 8, 9, and 1 are in the Anger center.

    I am really enjoying your blogs. Feel like I am getting to know you better.

    Lots of love,



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